GOING BIG: Mean partying your ass off. Nothing good ever happens when you “go big”, however it can be a hell a lot of fun. Usually it is best to plan to “go big” in advance — have prearranged bail money, the next day free to extend the bender into, keep 400 Advil on hand to deal with your hangover, and a lawyer or two may be handy — but often you might “raise the odds” and accidentally “go big”! If you want to have fun, sometimes, you’ve got to pay. It is helpful to have some “big boy” apparel (aviator glasses, fur coats, etc) to signify to those known to you that you are “going big” and they can distance themselves appropriately.